Day 0, My Pre- Work. . .continued

My end vision (30 day Challenge)

I want to be a positive, supportive, welcoming person. Someone every wants to be around and talk to. I want to love freely and unconditionally (not talking about romantic love) be more selfless and considerate. The type of person that people know they can turn to and not have to worry about what to do in return. I want to let go of the need for control, let life happen as it will and the people around me be who they are, (the only person I can truly control is me and I am learning to do this). Be kind, giving, warm and welcoming, have a smile for everyone and a good thought or encouraging words (ALL the time). Be friendly, carefree and happy. Go with the flow and relax, and finally just enjoy life and those in it!

My Action Plan (30 day Challenge)

Focus on the good instead of the bad, see the brighter side of everything that I do and that happens. Smile at everyone I see, start up random conversation with people I know and strangers alike. Be supportive by listening and not judging a person by what they say, don't focus on the faults of a person but on their talents and the things that make each person amazing. Be more selfless, be there when I am needed and be willing to go the extra mile for anyone is need (even those that aren't). Think about what I say and how I react to a situation or a person before I do, try to walk a mile in their shoes and understand where they have been and what they have been through instead of jumping to defensive or over reacting. Have FUN with everything I do and just enjoy the life God gave me to live.


Now I have my action plan calender filled out with all this information, however until they invent some nifty gadget that will allow me to upload my phone calender to this blog post, you will all just have to trust me on this :D.

I have also schedule for when I shall start on my daily task each day, my day will begin at 7 and I will begin reading and working on each task by 7:30 and this is AM not PM, another thing I am going to do along with this challenge is set my inner clock to wake up early in the morning.

So this is my commitment, I do hereby solemnly swear that I do every challenge with 115% of me and that I will successfully finish this challenge by July 29th 2012, with amazing results.

Day 0, My Pre- Work. . .

This is day 0 of the 30 day journey, and here is how it goes. . . .


Step 1: Create your end vision for the month (this should only take 20 min. but if it takes more then that's ok)

What kind of person do you want to be in the end of the 30 days?  What traits do you want to have? What is the ideal person you want to be?


Step 2: Create your 30 day action plan (30 min)


After setting your goals in step 1 step 2 maps out how you are going to achieve this.

• Identify your action plan, be specific, be detailed, dig deep!!

• Fill in your 30 day action plan calender, fill in the calender for each day with your action plan steps,

• Schedule them, set aside time in the morning and time at night for each task, this is where the commitment comes in if your busy MAKE time, or all the previous and future steps are pointless.

Step 3: Prepare for action!

This is where it all starts, if you are not 120% sure about doing this then stop now because unless you are for sure, you will never finish, and that is our goal, to finish, stick with it even when life happens, even when you don't want too, even when your having a rough day.



If I can do this anyone can, you don't have to do it alone, do it with a friend or family member. Or join me, it's easy if you have the support because that person can help remind you why you are doing this when you get discouraged.

I have chosen to do it alone, this is more to me then a 30 day challenge, this is a journey to rediscover the person I used to be and to be happy and love myself again. Please do not think I am being too hard on myself or too critical, you will read some brutal honesty but only because it's what I need to hear, not to make myself feel bad! Just have fun with it, and stay open minded, and if you need a lift let me know, I am here for anyone who needs it.    

Stay tuned for tonight's post on how the day has gone!

Ready or not!

My last post a week or so ago I mentioned a 30 day challenge I was going to embark on. Well things kinda went south for me and this was delayed, however it starts today. My mother bought this program for me (to get your own copy click here). This is not just a one time only program you can do it over and over, you can easily turn it into a 60 or 90 day challenge. All the info is on the site.

Today will be the start of a new me, a journey to discover who I am and who I want to be, and the daily tasks to get me there. I have faced a lot of struggles but from this day over those days are over. I will shape my future and it will be all that I know and dream it can be.

I will post daily about the task for the day and then let you all know what insight I have gained. This is for me and to see myself grow, to love myself for who I am and what I know I can be and do. I welcome anyone to join me and anyone to give me feedback. I do ask tho that you keep it positive and supportive.

This is a very important journey for me, a start of a new beginning and I hope it won't be the end of all I once knew, but if it is, then so be it, I am a fighter and I will make it.